• You start to hear phrases like,
                                       "I love you, but I am not in love with you" or "We are no longer compatible" or "Too much has happened.
                                       The marriage is over." 
  
  • You are consistently arguing about a specific issue 
  
                                       • You are arguing often about many
                                       issues and do not know why 
  
 • You are feeling nagged or are nagging too much 
  
                                       • You need a safe place to vent and
                                       get perspective 
  
 • You want to add more romance in your life 
  
 • You have a joint goal that you want to achieve 
                                        
 • You
                                       have a joint goal/issue that is causing stress on the relationship (moving, getting pregnant, etc.) 
  
                                       • You have an individual goal/issue
                                       that is affecting the relationship (changing jobs, quitting, problems with family/friends, etc) 
  
                                       • A new baby or kids change
                                       the course of the relationship